Six months in a country where culture and language varies a lot even within the country, not to even talking about compare to Europe. I have had an opportunity to get to know Chinas culture in many aspects tasting different foods, meeting new people (both, Chinese and non-Chinese) and travel many places.
I will admit that there have been moments of different feelings, there have been no way to avoid moments of frustration but there have been also many moments of glad and joy fulfilled with different experiences. I've seen many faces of China, from Shanghai skyscrapers to old farmer who lives in a cave, from Inner-Mongolian grasslands to Li-river green hills, from busy life in Beijing to peacefulness of Tibet. Every place includes own stories and memories, but like I said after I left Ireland: Its the people that make places.
People... yes people in China are truly a chapter of its own, even that it almost feel bad for me to talk Chinese people as one because there is such a huge difference among them. Chinese have their own habits and event that they might feel weird from our perspective, I still think that they need to respected as the way they are, not judge them. For example spitting on a streets or “slurping” noodles/soup can be irritating, but have you ever head that louder you “slurp” your food, the better it tastes! Another funny combination is Chinese and cameras, especially in the phones, which connects to selfies. Here people love to pose on cameras, it even comes naturally from 4 years old child, and it is important to pose in front everything as all things that moves and even if they dont move, they are still worth of taking picture -or few just in case if first one is not good enough or something...
Oh, and bathrooms, which mostly are just holes in the ground some of them having more privacy but some of then are basically just holes side by side, no walls or nothinhg between (Japanese call those ones “Ni Hao Toilets”). I know that topic is not the most interesting one, but I share it still: I managed almost whole six months without squatting in bathrooms, but that 42hrs train ride toTibet broke me. But I mean even the squat toilets are part of Chinese culture and habit to use them is so deep in mind that there have to be a sign over normal toilet “no standing on a toilet seat, sit down please”
One thing I learned in here is that actually with how little its possible to get along and be happy. Even that sometimes Chinese seem ignorant towards other, mostly if they dont know you, but when you “break the ice”, the way they actually do care from others who are close to them is amazing and definately something worth to learn. On the other hand living here have shown clearly inequalities in society, how much wealthiness can give you power and how Chinese who have money are definately not afraid to show it in a way that everyone should know their place in Chinese society. Same applies for foreigners, being a Western person in China, gives you a priviledges and good opportunities in society, but on the other hand adds it adds some extra challenges (especially if you dont speak language). It is stunning to notice how openly racist Chinese culture is.
There is an statement I've heard that there is a life before and after exchange in China and I completely agree with that. Some people fall in love with China completely, for some it has been more like an awesome experience but the country is not the place where to spend longer time in life. I belong this second group, China has been great experience but it is time to move on. One thing that influences is most likely the language, here I realised first time in my life how important is to know the language in order to be able to integrate better on surrounding culture and in that way have much more out of it.
Thank you for those ones who have been reading my blog. This is now last post because it is time for new adventures. It is not time to return Finland yet, I will spend next two months backpacking around South-East Asia, which will be completely another story to tell.
Ps. Now you can check also pictures for two previous blog posts!











